One of the most exciting parts of my job, dear reader, is meeting guests at each of the weddings I work. Everyone is in a good mood and excited for the festivities of the day. On top of that I love seeing how each attendee knows the happy couple and what led them to this exact moment where we all are witnessing and celebrating nothing but love.
And no one’s experience at a wedding is quite like the wedding guest. Not necessarily a family member, and not always even a close friend (depending on the size of the wedding). But for some reason they were invited to join in on such a momentous occasion.
So with that said, here’s a rundown of some of the top do’s and don’ts of being a wedding guest. And if you’re like me in your early-30’s you’re probably also attending multiple weddings for the next few years. We could all use a refresher!
WEDDING GUEST ETIQUETTE
DO RSVP On Time And Correctly
What can be the biggest headache for couples (and their planners!) is when the RSVP’s that come in become a bit like pulling teeth. You’re being invited to an incredible weekend where the couple has made sure accommodations will be available down to the dietary restrictions!
We can only ask you to follow suit and make sure to respond within the designated time frame. Reserve your hotel stay with the block that the couple set up! Tell them about your peanut allergy ASAP! Snag that gift off the registry, if they’ve got one.
These are just some of the little things you can do leading up to the event to make sure everything is squared away.
Oh, and if you’re allowed a plus one, let them know who it is!
DON’T Take Photos If They Hired A Wedding Photographer
Listen, I’ll allow a selfie or two for your IG story (as long as it’s out of the way) but that’s it!
The wedding photographer has been hired for a reason, y’all. They are being paid at a premium to make sure the evening’s memories have been captured. And not only captured, but edited to be just absolutely gorgeous!
You will get those photos eventually from your friend’s who got hitched, but for now just enjoy the moments.
And honestly, the sooner you put your phone away for the entire festivities, the sooner you will be happy you did.
DO Follow Wedding Dress Code
Oftentimes the couple will have this listed on their invitation. And that means it’s there for a reason! Follow it!
“Spring cocktail attire” or “Autumn Semi-Formal” has more wiggle room for expression than you think it does, I promise. A quick google can help you find ways to really make sure you look and feel your best for the wedding and still be within whatever parameters the couple set for you.
And it goes without saying, but they will almost never ask you to wear white.
DON’T Hookup At The Wedding Reception
Save it for the hotel room that you booked. You could be like these guests.
Did we miss any rules and hints? Let us know in the comments!
