Welcome back, dear reader, to another edition of Money & Matrimony! Once a month on the OIMDE blog, I take a look at the financial side of weddings and events, and dig deep to untangle the seemingly mind-numbing money hoops when planning a wedding.
One of the reasons I started this series in the first place was stripping down the multiple very large purchases that you’ll come across when planning your wedding. We’ve talked about venues, planners, and packages. What’s next?
Yes, the dress.
One of the most romanticized parts of the wedding planning process right? Oftentimes the “something new” in the much used adage.
But how romantic is the process of wedding dress shopping really? Brides can learn the hard way that there’s no need to rush a moment like this. Let it happen and take its course, and the dress will come to you with time.
Okay sure, that’s all fine and dandy but we’re here to shop numbers. What does it mean to financially when you’re wedding dress shopping and what are some things to consider when shopping for your wedding dress?
Let’s dive in.
Why Do Wedding Dresses Cost So Much?
Let’s get right to it. Why are wedding dresses so expensive? To put it simply, multiple reasons.
First off, the cost of materials. So often brides are looking for intricacies and details in their dresses so that they’re showstoppers. That right kind of embellishment and embroidery will make a world of a difference. For instance, consider your photos. What do you want to be wearing and look like in photos that will last for generations to come?
Opting for a simpler design? Even with that, the cost of the fabric will still be a chunk of change. Wedding dresses are constructed with the intent of lasting for decades, and even potentially passed down from bride to bride. These points are all considered when making the garment, really proving that a bridal gown is going to be an investment.
And these points can certainly put pressure on the bride! It’s an investment that shouldn’t be taken lightly, and one that she (presumably) plans on only doing once in her life.
Do Wedding Dress Appointments Cost Money
The day of wedding dress shopping doesn’t charge an admission fee, but maybe if you miss your appointment altogether. Though, the shopping experience of it all should be taken seriously while still having a blast. It’s an exciting day! It’s also a day where you’re considering (and even then potentially making) a very large investment.
So all in all, go into shopping day with your wedding dress budget in mind, what you want your dress to look like and not look like, and options that you could be swayed on. You’re about to make a very exciting purchase, so breathe and enjoy the ride!