Welcome back to another edition of Money & Matrimony! Once a month on the OIMDE blog, I take a look at the financial side of weddings and events, and dig deep to untangle the seemingly mind-numbing money hoops when planning a wedding.
The past few months we’ve been deep diving into all things budget. What does a wedding budget look like, what to keep in mind when setting a wedding budget, and most importantly, how to stick to your wedding budget!
Now that that’s out of the way, I want to consider the fun side of things. After all, weddings are meant to be fun!
It’s why I got into the wedding business in the first place. Working weddings for me means I get to work with a couple on what’s going to be one of the happiest moments of their lives. Everything comes to the wedding to take part in the joy and celebrate together. It’s good times all around!
And with that, I cannot stress enough the importance of a splurge. Yes, I’ve been giving you tips on tips on advice on how to keep your wallet as tight as possible, and this is important! But in today’s society, dipping into that splurge can bring you a bout of serotonin that will carry on (in this instance) through the ceremony to everyone who’s attending.
Wedding Splurges That Are Worth It
Planning a wedding and wondering where to splurge and where to save? Well, let me be your guide on this exhilarating journey. I may not have a finance degree or a fancy title, but hey, I do have a few credit cards up my sleeve. So, let's dive in and explore some wedding splurges that can make your big day truly unforgettable!
The Venue: Go Big or Go Home?
Now, this one might seem like a no-brainer, but hear me out. Your wedding venue will likely be one of the biggest expenses, and it's tempting to cut corners. Trust me, I get it! But before you settle for just any place, consider your options.
Sure, unconventional venues can be a tad pricier, but they often come with added perks and convenience. Don't be afraid to explore unique locations that can make your wedding experience extraordinary. After all, a little extra investment upfront could lead to long-term bliss. (Psst! Check out my blog post on the financial pros and cons of a DIY wedding for more juicy details.)
The Tux: Suit Up in Style!
Grooms, listen up! I know the temptation to rent a tuxedo is real. I mean, when else are you going to wear it, right? But hold on, my friend. Nowadays, you have a world of options beyond that prom-like rental. Why not consider buying a custom-made tuxedo instead?
Investing in a tailor-made ensemble allows you to add your personal touch and get more bang for your buck. You'll have separate pieces that can be mixed and matched for future occasions. Trust me, it's an investment that'll keep on giving!
The Photographer/Videographer: Capture the Magic!
Listen, folks, a picture is worth a thousand words, especially when it comes to your wedding day. With all the money you're pouring into this celebration, you'll want stunning, high-quality photos to cherish forever. And hey, if you have a specific ambiance or aesthetic in mind, you'll want a top-notch professional who can bring your vision to life.
Remember, your wedding photos are a timeless memento of your special day. So, don't skimp on hiring a skilled photographer. Oh, and in this digital age, a talented videographer is also worth considering. After all, who doesn't want a cinematic highlight reel of their love story?
Honeymoon: The Ultimate Escape!
Now, let's talk about the honeymoon. Although it's not technically part of the wedding ceremony, it's an integral part of your wedding experience. It's your chance to embark on a romantic adventure with your partner.
These days, more couples are opting for honeymoon funds instead of traditional gifts. So, don't be shy! Add that dream trip to your registry and let your guests know you're seeking an unforgettable experience. And hey, if you find some extra room in your budget, why not splurge a bit more on your honeymoon? Trust me, a little upgrade can make a world of difference.
Your Priorities: Make It Your Own!
At the end of the day, it's your special day! It's a time to gather your loved ones and celebrate one of the most significant moments of your life. So, take a moment to reflect on what truly matters to you. Is it the venue, the photographer, or something entirely different?
When deciding where to allocate your precious wedding budget, consider your priorities. Because, my friends, those are the things you'll remember most vividly. Trust your instincts and make choices that resonate with your heart. I have no doubt it'll be absolutely splendid!
So, there you have it, lovebirds! Wedding splurges that are truly worth it. Remember, it's about creating magical memories and starting your happily-ever-after in style. Go ahead, plan your dream day, and let love guide your way! 💍❤️
